In our lives, whatever we do, has only one ultimate goal. And this goal doesn’t vary depending on the kind of the deed we are doing.
Be it earning a lot of money, or wanting to be the best doctor, or even the desire to be the best parent; the ultimate goal is to be HAPPY!
We all have many wishes in your lives, desires that we would love to turn into reality. I have a desire to buy a Lamborghini Gallardo. But what will buying a Lamborghini ultimately give me? It’s happiness. Thus, happiness is the key to our desires.
We never desire of doing anything that will make us sad or angry or anxious. We always choose to do the things that make us happy.
So, instead of keeping our lives biggest goals as earning a lot of money, or being the greatest player or any other field you might be interested in, I think it’s important to keep the ULTIMATE GOAL of our life to be Happy. Because once being happy is our goal, we will always choose to do things that will ultimately lead us to success.
Suppose you love playing guitar. And this gives you the greatest joy. So, spend most of your time playing the guitar. The result will be that you will be an awesome guitarist and consequently a successful one.
Thus, we can achieve success by following what doing what gives us happiness.
It is a choice. Nothing else!
If you want it to be, it will be. If you don’t, it won’t!
Life is afterall a compilation of the choices that we make. And being happy is the most important one.
We may be surrounded by atrocities and hardships, but there is always a silver lining among the dark clouds. We need to see through those dark clouds at the shining sun which is ultimately going to shine bright. Clouds are temporary, but sunshine is permanent.
He who can see through the dark clouds into the shining sun, is the recipient of the world’s greatest happiness.
– The Verbal Explainer
Sometimes it seems impossible for us to be happy. But as I said, it’s a choice. You can be sad and listen to more sad songs and be even more sad. Or you can turn your mind’s attention to the happiest moments of your lives and listen to something beautiful or some comedy and be happy.
It all depends on you, how you want it to be.
The brain that we possess is extremely powerful and we have no idea about its extent. So why not explore it in different ways? Why not be happy at all times?
Let’s make the right choice and be happy.
Life is full of good and bad stuff. We cannot avoid the presence of either of the two. So it’s really important that we enjoy both.
Life is not about suffering. It’s about having the ultimate pleasure one can have. So let’s start enjoying the hard times because that’s how we can convert even those worst moments into enjoyable parts of our lives.
Let’s be happy!
It is really important to take care of your relationships with sincerity. This is what keeps relationships thriving!
Never lose those people. They may be more valuable to you than you can ever imagine!
Have you ever been in a situation where you felt like you are completely out of your comfort zone and no one around you is supportive of what you are doing? Yes, we all have been there. This is the time we mostly quit and set ourselves back to our comfortable lifestyle.
But this is not the right thing to do. And we all know it. So how to fight through that? How to be motivated during those situations?
Well one of my friends once told me a quote, which I have posted in my Instagram account, which says, “Never say Why Me? Always say Try Me!” And this is such a motivation booster that we don’t realise until we actually utter this from our mouth.
Just try this – Whenever you are in tough circumstances, just look around yourself, smile and tell the Universe “Try Me!!” And things will drastically change. You will feel more confident and even thrilled to be in a situation like this because now you can show your true power to the Universe.
So why does this happen?
Whenever we say stuff like this, we become more aware of our strengths and forget our weaknesses. And that is what makes us perform better and be more productive. There is this famous saying that always focus on your strengths and not weaknesses. And this is the ultimate deal. If you want to win, concentrate on what you can do best and execute it.
That’s how winning is done!!
P.S. – A special thanks to my friend Samyak Aditya for providing me with the theme of this post.
Not everyone will understand you. So, don’t even bother to explain them. Take decisions that will make you answerable to yourself in the future. Never repent any decision. Hence, make it with a clear and calm mind!