It’s hard when you live your life thinking about the happiness and sorrow of other people because you keep theirs ahead of yours. You want everything to be best for them even though you have to pass through a horrible experience.
Life becomes so difficult at times because your close one’s happiness is more important to you. And their sorrow makes you more sad.
You are not able to control their lives, but anything that happens in theirs, effects you.
The thing is, sometimes we need to think of ourselves as well. What we want, what we need, what makes us happy.
But life again puts you back in that cycle and you just can’t get out of it.
It’s hard sometimes.
In our lives, whatever we do, has only one ultimate goal. And this goal doesn’t vary depending on the kind of the deed we are doing.
Be it earning a lot of money, or wanting to be the best doctor, or even the desire to be the best parent; the ultimate goal is to be HAPPY!
We all have many wishes in your lives, desires that we would love to turn into reality. I have a desire to buy a Lamborghini Gallardo. But what will buying a Lamborghini ultimately give me? It’s happiness. Thus, happiness is the key to our desires.
We never desire of doing anything that will make us sad or angry or anxious. We always choose to do the things that make us happy.
So, instead of keeping our lives biggest goals as earning a lot of money, or being the greatest player or any other field you might be interested in, I think it’s important to keep the ULTIMATE GOAL of our life to be Happy. Because once being happy is our goal, we will always choose to do things that will ultimately lead us to success.
Suppose you love playing guitar. And this gives you the greatest joy. So, spend most of your time playing the guitar. The result will be that you will be an awesome guitarist and consequently a successful one.
Thus, we can achieve success by following what doing what gives us happiness.
It is a choice. Nothing else!
If you want it to be, it will be. If you don’t, it won’t!
Life is afterall a compilation of the choices that we make. And being happy is the most important one.
We may be surrounded by atrocities and hardships, but there is always a silver lining among the dark clouds. We need to see through those dark clouds at the shining sun which is ultimately going to shine bright. Clouds are temporary, but sunshine is permanent.
He who can see through the dark clouds into the shining sun, is the recipient of the world’s greatest happiness.
– The Verbal Explainer
Sometimes it seems impossible for us to be happy. But as I said, it’s a choice. You can be sad and listen to more sad songs and be even more sad. Or you can turn your mind’s attention to the happiest moments of your lives and listen to something beautiful or some comedy and be happy.
It all depends on you, how you want it to be.
The brain that we possess is extremely powerful and we have no idea about its extent. So why not explore it in different ways? Why not be happy at all times?
Let’s make the right choice and be happy.
Life is full of good and bad stuff. We cannot avoid the presence of either of the two. So it’s really important that we enjoy both.
Life is not about suffering. It’s about having the ultimate pleasure one can have. So let’s start enjoying the hard times because that’s how we can convert even those worst moments into enjoyable parts of our lives.
Let’s be happy!
It is really important to take care of your relationships with sincerity. This is what keeps relationships thriving!
Never lose those people. They may be more valuable to you than you can ever imagine!