Our whole life transpires in the search of love. A life without love is not a life at all.
So, if you find someone in your life who loves you more than themselves and is ready to sacrifice things for you, just to be by your side, don’t let them go. They are the most precious gifts life can ever give you.
Hold them tight, and don’t let them fleet!
Help, help and help!!! Help people. You can create a whole new world when you help people and have a positive impact on their lives.
And don’t try to do this with the desire to get appreciation for it. Do it because it actually benefits the world and you are fortunate enough that you are able to take part in this.
So go out and HELP!
Everytime we judge or treat someone in a particular way, let us atleast for once, put ourselves in their position and deeply think what would we have done in that situation?
This is how we get to understand the condition of others.
Let us from today, never treat anyone in an unpleasant way because everyone is facing different circumstances in their lives. Let’s respect that and move on.
If you are that guy who thinks that keeping you girlfriend under your control is the way you should treat your girl, then you are a fucking asshole. Who do you think is that girl to you?? A slave?? No dude, that’s a human being who is much more superior to you in many other aspects of life.
I have seen in my life many guys who have this notion, “If you can’t keep your girlfriend under your command, then they will get out of control and will make your life hell.” You sir, are a complete moron.
The greatest flaw our society has had since the beginning of civilization is demeaning women in the society; underestimating the power that women possess and thinking that since men are physically stronger, they should dominate over the women.
And this we see in your homes, where you will see many housewives, but how many househusbands will you see?? Any in your notice?
Our society has blended these thoughts and nurtured them so well over centuries that now we take it for granted that women are less powerful than man.
My dear guys, it’s time that you stop nurturing these myths in your mind. This is not the reality. Women are as good as a man in any aspect of life. Start recognising this.
And this is the reason why guys feel that it is necessary to dominate over their girlfriends. And the most funny part is that they find it really cool if they are able to control their girlfriends and they brag about to their friends, who unfortunately end up enjoying the story because they are greater assholes than that boyfriend guy.
Listen ladies, stand up against it. You are stronger than you think you are. Believe in your abilities. You find a dominating boyfriend, dump him. He doesn’t deserve you. Teach them lessons that they never forget.
And guys, please respect women for who they are. We all are equal. So let’s treat each other equally. Let’s bring harmony into the society that has been missing.
Hope we can change the flow of the tide in our society by our actions.
Cheers!!
I hate the stars, because I look at the same ones you do, without you
-Unknown
You all will know the answer to this question. It’s obviously that one of the partners may get bored with the relationship or they lose trust on their partner and suffer from many misunderstandings or they cheat on their partner. It sounds really simple when we read it, but it’s fucking tough in reality. To bear the pain of that is immense.
So comes the next question…
The most important aspect of long distance relationship is trust. No matter what happens, we have trust our partner. We have to trust that he/she is truthful to us in every step and never thinking of betraying us. It’s plain and simple. Because there is no alternative. Let me tell you why…
When we start doubting the other person, we ourselves bring into our own lives a lot of tension and frustration which over the course of times becomes overwhelming and we start to hate our relationships.
This is extremely unhealthy. This is the trigger that ultimately leads to breaking up. We must remove the idea of doubting our partner completely from our mind. Just trust. We may have fights and bad moody days, but should never fail to trust that our partner loves us a lot.
This allows us to stay happy and this is directly proportional to the happiness of our partner. This is how we bring joy into the relationship. Even though far apart, we still need to have the connection.
We need a lot of patience in long distance relationships. It is sometimes too much for some to bear. But we need to hold on. If our partner is really special for us, if that person is really “The One” for us, then we should hold on. Let’s hold on to our patience, because no big thing in this world happens on the snap of a finger. Not everyone is Thanos after all. Every great things demands a lot of patience, so if it really something great for us, then we must be.
The moment we lose patience, that is the moment bad things start to happen. We become restless, we lose control, we say and do stuff that hurt them, and some words one spoken can never really be taken back. So let’s keep our nerves calm, because someone special is waiting for us.
But what if they actually betray us??? What then?
Let me make on thing really clear, if we give your best in a relationship and our partner still leaves us, betrays us and cheats on us, then we have nothing to do. Either their desire from us was much more than what we could deliver or they would have left you even if we were with them. They were meant to leave us.
So let’s make sure we give them our best, make them feel like they are the most special person in our lives. Then if they still leave us, then we know that we were not the reason for that. The fault is not with us. This is how we can console ourselves and move on.
So let’s love and be loved. #AS #STAR
Trust and be Patient
Cheers!!
The Verbal Explainer 