Are you short tempered? Do you get pissed off really soon? Even at the slightest things that don’t follow your path of thinking? And you think that it’s really cool that you have that ‘ANGRY YOUNG MAN” attitude in you?? Then you are following the wrong path mate. Let’s see how.
Lets talk about the scientific aspect first.
Our every action utilizes energy. Our every thought utilizes energy. So, when we are angry, we spend too much energy in our anger. And as a result, we are left out with minimised energy source to act. Hence, whatever we do without anger will be much more fruitful than what with do with anger.
Anger reduces productivity
-The Verbal Explainer
Now let’s talk about the social aspect of this.
When you are angry, you create a negative vive all around you. The people around you start feeling uncomfortable when you are around with all your rage. You start becoming a unwanted by the people. This is when you start feeling lonely, you get frustrated because people around you don’t like you anymore. And this gives way to more anger. Finally, you start doing things that harm others just to prove to yourself that you were right in the first place and others were wrong.
Listen mate, being angry is not cool. Being calm and collective is. When you are angry, you make biased decisions. You follow your anger, which lasts for a very small time and then you make your decisions based on them. And these are types of decisions that harm you in the long run. It may seem that you have done something really brave and outrageous at that moment, but when you calm down and start thinking deeply about it, you realise how much harm you have caused to yourself just because of your uncontrollable anger.
So, stop getting angry at every little thing, just because you think it is cool. It is fucking not.
Here’s what you should rather do. When you are angry, don’t do anything. Let you mind calm down. You better sleep or spend some time on your own to let your brain soak the rage in. Now that you have a calm and composed brain and you are unbiased, think about the situation and make a decision. And these are the decisions that you will never regret because you made them when you were sane and conscious.
When you get super angry, you lose your consciousness of what is right and wrong. In that moment, you anger leads the way. You lose the ability to think reasonably. So start getting reasonable with your life. Every decision that you make must be reasonable.
Being happy and peaceful is cool. You need to learn how to be Happy and Peaceful. That’s how you stay good and you keep the people around you cool as well.
Good luck with that.
Cheers!!
The Verbal Explainer 