Posted in Changing the society

The Autobiography of a roadside Dustbin

Hello there, I might be known to you. Have you seen those plastic or metal buckets placed on the road sides, with a caption written on it, which says, “USE ME”? Yeah, that’s me. I am called a dustbin. People use me to dump their garbage, well, I mean, they are supposed to. Basically I am found all over the globe, but used in very few; which is a real shame for me. It seems like I have lost my importance to the people. But things were not the same back when I was invented.

Early days:

Back in the year 1884, a guy named Eugene Poubelle invented me in France, in order for households to dump their garbage. This slowly went further ahead to the point the whole society has a common dustbin where every household would gather their garbage from their small personal dustbins and dump into into a huge, common dustbin. 

That was the beginning of a new era. The era of Dustbins. I was the king at that time. People loved me. Even people who had me felt superior to those who didn’t. I was becoming a symbol of cleanliness. I was the Clean Supreme

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Things went on pretty nicely for many decades. But slowly, people started getting bored by me. Maybe they wanted me to do something more than just store their sewage. Maybe they wanted me to crack jokes or something. But I wasn’t able to do that.

The Downfall:

Days passed and I was losing my fame. But I didn’t have anything else to offer other than just provide a space for them to dump their shitty stuff. I was losing my value. The society was progressing at rapid pace. But I was still that good old plastic bucket. 

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But all were not the same. Some still loved me. They took care of me, and did what I loved most – they dumped their shit in me. I was happy with them. After all humanity is still alive. 

Although there were countries who almost forgot about me. I was present right in front of their eyes, and yet they would throw their garbage beside me in the road. It felt like I was invisible. Some even played basketball with me. They treated me as the basket and they would throw their garbage from a far distance, aiming for it to enter me. It felt nice when it entered. But the times when it didn’t, they didn’t give a second effort. Such losers! They just dampened the mood for the game. No sportsman spirit at all.

Current situation:

Well, I am still invisible to most, while some still recognize me and use me. I love them. But there are people who hold a piece of garbage in their hand, a bag of chips, or a candy wrapper, and they see me at a distance. Yet they don’t come close to me and throw it right where they are standing. It breaks my heart.

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Am I that worthless? What have I done to them? I live in depression most of the time now. Thinking of the good old days, when I was the Supreme icon for cleanliness. Now everything has changed. Time changes, people change but my duty will always be the same.

I will still be standing there by the roadside, in the storms, in the hot sunshines and in the snowy weather. I will be doing my job.

I wish Eugene were here. He would know how to tackle the situation. But he is gone now. And people are making a fun of me.

I only have one request to all those reading this, ‘If you want your country to be clean, so that when someone from elsewhere comes to visit your state, you don’t feel ashamed of the dirt in your roads, then –

USE ME!

Posted in Changing the society, Relationships

STOP dominating your girlfriend!

If you are that guy who thinks that keeping you girlfriend under your control is the way you should treat your girl, then you are a fucking asshole. Who do you think is that girl to you?? A slave?? No dude, that’s a human being who is much more superior to you in many other aspects of life.

I have seen in my life many guys who have this notion, “If you can’t keep your girlfriend under your command, then they will get out of control and will make your life hell.” You sir, are a complete moron.

The greatest flaw our society has had since the beginning of civilization is demeaning women in the society; underestimating the power that women possess and thinking that since men are physically stronger, they should dominate over the women.

And this we see in your homes, where you will see many housewives, but how many househusbands will you see?? Any in your notice?

Our society has blended these thoughts and nurtured them so well over centuries that now we take it for granted that women are less powerful than man.

My dear guys, it’s time that you stop nurturing these myths in your mind. This is not the reality. Women are as good as a man in any aspect of life. Start recognising this.

And this is the reason why guys feel that it is necessary to dominate over their girlfriends. And the most funny part is that they find it really cool if they are able to control their girlfriends and they brag about to their friends, who unfortunately end up enjoying the story because they are greater assholes than that boyfriend guy.

Listen ladies, stand up against it. You are stronger than you think you are. Believe in your abilities. You find a dominating boyfriend, dump him. He doesn’t deserve you. Teach them lessons that they never forget.

And guys, please respect women for who they are. We all are equal. So let’s treat each other equally. Let’s bring harmony into the society that has been missing.

Hope we can change the flow of the tide in our society by our actions.

Cheers!!

Posted in Changing the society

Is being angry cool?

Are you short tempered? Do you get pissed off really soon? Even at the slightest things that don’t follow your path of thinking? And you think that it’s really cool that you have that ‘ANGRY YOUNG MAN” attitude in you?? Then you are following the wrong path mate. Let’s see how.

Lets talk about the scientific aspect first.
Our every action utilizes energy. Our every thought utilizes energy. So, when we are angry, we spend too much energy in our anger. And as a result, we are left out with minimised energy source to act. Hence, whatever we do without anger will be much more fruitful than what with do with anger.

Anger reduces productivity

-The Verbal Explainer

Now let’s talk about the social aspect of this.

When you are angry, you create a negative vive all around you. The people around you start feeling uncomfortable when you are around with all your rage. You start becoming a unwanted by the people. This is when you start feeling lonely, you get frustrated because people around you don’t like you anymore. And this gives way to more anger. Finally, you start doing things that harm others just to prove to yourself that you were right in the first place and others were wrong.

Listen mate, being angry is not cool. Being calm and collective is. When you are angry, you make biased decisions. You follow your anger, which lasts for a very small time and then you make your decisions based on them. And these are types of decisions that harm you in the long run. It may seem that you have done something really brave and outrageous at that moment, but when you calm down and start thinking deeply about it, you realise how much harm you have caused to yourself just because of your uncontrollable anger.

So, stop getting angry at every little thing, just because you think it is cool. It is fucking not.

Here’s what you should rather do. When you are angry, don’t do anything. Let you mind calm down. You better sleep or spend some time on your own to let your brain soak the rage in. Now that you have a calm and composed brain and you are unbiased, think about the situation and make a decision. And these are the decisions that you will never regret because you made them when you were sane and conscious.

When you get super angry, you lose your consciousness of what is right and wrong. In that moment, you anger leads the way. You lose the ability to think reasonably. So start getting reasonable with your life. Every decision that you make must be reasonable.

Being happy and peaceful is cool. You need to learn how to be Happy and Peaceful. That’s how you stay good and you keep the people around you cool as well.

Good luck with that.

Cheers!!